February 19th, 2021 by mjp-admin

The year after being divorced is a period of “firsts”, where you adjust to your new life and relearn how to do things that you may have taken for granted. Many of our clients worry as April 15th approaches and they realize that they have questions on how to file their annual income tax return.
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February 5th, 2021 by mjp-admin
Valentine’s Day is almost here and couples everywhere are making plans of how to spend the special day together. The reality for many newly divorced couples is that holidays like Valentine’s Day challenge them to navigate a “new norm”. Whether they worked with one of the top divorce lawyers or one of the best divorce mediators, newly divorced couples cannot fall back on the traditions and routines that they enjoyed with their children and their family. Read more…
Posted in Children, Co-Parenting, Communication, Consistency, Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Support, Moving Forward, Post Divorce, Uncategorized |
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October 16th, 2019 by mjp-admin
A client of mine from some years ago, Mrs. X, chose a proactive stance in tackling her first Thanksgiving holiday alone after her divorce. Determined to not simmer in a sulk and drown herself in solitude with a bottle of dry Chardonnay, she chose to serve the impoverished instead. Ironically, by nourishing the needy in the St. Louis community with a holiday meal, Read more…
Posted in Considering Divorce, Dating after divorce, Divorce, Emotional Support, Finances, Holidays & Divorce, LGBTQ, Mediation, Men & Divorce, Moving Forward, Networking, Post Divorce, Women & Divorce |
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September 26th, 2019 by mjp-admin
Family holidays and get-togethers are often a catalyst for divorcing parents to bring unnecessary personal distress upon themselves, each other, and, ultimately, their children. Fortunately, the counter-defense to such a consequence is rather simple: the priority of healthy choices in self-care.

A Story From My Files About the Need for Self-Care
Some years ago, I was representing a woman (let’s call her Mrs.
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Posted in Dating after divorce, Emotional Support, Extracurricular Activities, Men & Divorce, Moving Forward, Organization, Post Divorce, Self-Care, Transformation, Women & Divorce |
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August 20th, 2019 by Marta J. Papa
In my article Scripting the News of Your Divorce for your Children, I provide an idea of how to prepare the news of divorce to your kids. Having a script that stays on-message and is well-practiced is important because this content matters. What’s also important is the context in which that content is delivered. When? Where? How?
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Posted in Behavioral Changes, Child Support, Children, Children, Children & Divorce, Co-Parenting, Communication, Considering Divorce, Consistency, Custody Arrangements, Men & Divorce, Moving Forward, Parenting Time, Women & Divorce |
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December 26th, 2017 by Marta J. Papa
This is an area where it is important to tread softly and prepare ahead of time. You can make it much easier on yourself and your children by coming up with a well thought out plan of what to say. You also need to decide if one spouse will sit down with the kids or if you can sit down together and speak to them.
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